Oh hey, remember when I promised a proposal story about two and a half weeks ago? Well, it's here! Albeit, late - but it's here.
I honestly don't have too much to add to my
weekend post and the events that led up to the proposal. It really was a gorgeous day, perfect for a picnic. Since it was Second Sunday we got to see a lot friends before the proposal happened, so it was really fun to just be mostly-oblivious and walk down King saying hello to everyone we knew.
I put together a make-shift picnic using a few things at my house (brie, pickles, wine) and then we added some bread and more cheese after a quick pop in Bull Street Gourmet. I actually posted this photo on Facebook and Instagram before the proposal even happened.
The question people ask me most - did I know it was going to happen? Well, I wasn't completely surprised it happened that day, but in the actual moment I was very surprised. I can read Adam pretty well, and was able to pick up a couple of clues that meant it could have been happening. I wouldn't have been upset, or had necessarily remembered if he didn't propose, but that day it felt like it was possible.
The clues ranged from 1) the picnic in general - it was actually my idea, but he kept reminding me that we were going to do it. We do a lot of outdoor activities, but we haven't had a real picnic. His insistence that pack up a picnic basket definitely set off my nose. 2) I saw that he was texting my friend Amber the night before. He brushed it off as Amber asking about brunch the next day (which we did go to), but it furthered my suspicions. Amber was a friend I always said to reach out to if he had questions about rings. (She did end up helping him find the ring.) 3) The morning we left for brunch, Adam ran back upstairs because he "forgot his keys". This is a small, small hint - but I thought maybe he was grabbing the ring. (He was. I was right.)
Writing that paragraph it almost makes it seem like I was searching for clues. I wasn't actively trying to find anything, I never went through his pockets or brought my suspicions to his attention. They were just hints that were a little hard to ignore.
Back to the picnic. We were there for maybe an hour before the proposal happened. I think I thought about it when we first sat down, but it didn't cross my mind again. We were really just relaxing and enjoying the pretty day. I didn't know it at the time, but Adam said he was super quiet because he was really nervous. I thought we were just lounging, ha!
At a certain point, Adam asked me to stand up. I knew what was happening right away. "Stand up, stand up!" Hahah, I stood up and he immediately got down on one knee. He said a few things (I love you, want to marry you) that I can't 100% remember, it was all a bit of a blur. I actually got a lot more overwhelmed than I expected. I don't think I said yes right away, I went in for a big hug. He asked if it was a yes and I said, "of course!"
I honestly didn't even look at the ring at first. He had to remind me to look at it after I sat back down. My hand was really shaky, and the ring was big - so I didn't even put it on for maybe 20 minutes.
After lots of hugging and kissing we just sat and enjoyed the moment for maybe 20-30 minutes. We wanted to let it sink in a little bit before we started calling family. The sneaky bugger was able to hide a mini-champagne bottle in the picnic basket, so we popped some bubbly to celebrate. He legit almost hit me in the forehead with the cork. Haha, it would have been awful and fantastic if that's how our engagement began.
Adam said he waited the hour-plus that we were at White Point to make sure no one was close when he proposed. I had always told him I didn't want a public proposal, so he wanted to make sure that there wasn't a carriage ride rounding the corner when he got down on one-knee.
Once we had calmed down a little, we got excited again when we started calling family and friends! It was so much fun to tell everyone! I loved hearing everyone's reactions and well wishes.
The last couple weeks have been a little wild, the planning started quick. But I am so, so happy to be engaged and be able to get to marry Adam!